Budgeting Your Wedding: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff

It's easy to believe that every wedding costs tens of thousands, even hundreds of thousands, after flipping through the channels. Brides dripping with diamonds, grooms riding in luxury cars, as easy as it is to get swept way into the money-madness, it's important to note that you can have your dream wedding without going broke. In other words: you can have your cake and eat it too!

There are countless wedding tips and tricks on how to save cash when tying the not, everything from making your own wedding invitations to buying a second-hand gown. However, let's talk about the big things, the things that will make your wedding the stuff of your dreams.

To start, think of what is most important to you. Did you always dream of a wedding by the beach? Do you want a sit-down meal?

Once you and your fiance have decided on one or two non-negotiables, figure out how much making that a reality will cost. Don't be afraid to get creative. If you have a favorite hotel that you want to get married in, try to schedule your event in the off-season or strike a deal, such as renting a minimum number of rooms to get a break on the ballroom. Same goes for destination weddings. It's a bit of a risk, but it could save you thousands. In addition, by hosting your event in a unique or lavish location, you have all but eliminated the need for extensive (and expensive!) decor. A few flowers here, a few candles there, and voila!

Once you have your non-negotiable, do your best not to sweat the small stuff, because it is, in fact, small stuff. Spend money on the things that mean the most to you and your family. Only you know what they love. Focus on the big things and forget the rest. If you have money left in your wedding budget, you can add the extra items later.

Just remember, at the end of the day, it's about you marrying the person you love. Keep your eyes on the big picture, spend on the big stuff and work your way down to the tiny details.