Ok. So you’re best friend’s getting married. Whether you think he’s making a huge mistake or you’re thrilled for him, it’s still your obligation to help make this wedding day one of the best of his life. Remember what best man duties entail? Few do til the day comes so here is a wedding checklist for just such an occasion. Oh no, my friend. You’re in charge of much more than just the bachelor party. Here are your best man duties (and a look into why they call you the “best man” — it’s work!).
Best Man Duties Prior To The Wedding:
- Help the groom shop for formal wear (tuxedos, shoes, etc)
- Coordinate tux fittings and payments
- Plan the couple’s wedding shower and/or bachelor party
- Spread word about couple’s registry (the maid of honor also has this duty)
- Offer assistance to the bride and groom with wedding planning tasks
- Arrange travel and lodging for all groomsmen
- Attend rehearsal dinner
- Organize groomsmen on wedding day
Best Man Duties At The Wedding:
- Stand at front next to groom and other groomsmen as procession begins
- Carry bride’s wedding ring (or both)
- Escort the maid of honor during the recessional
- Sign marriage license as a witness
- Give the officiant’s fee to the officiant
Best Man Duties At The Reception:
- May stand in receiving line (if appropriate)
- Sit at head table next to bride
- Make first toast to the couple, serve as toast master
- Dance with maid of honor during first dance (if wedding party is asked to participate)
- Help direct vendors as needed (Bride and groom will be too busy)
- Help groom give final payments and tips to wedding vendors
- Collect gifts and gift checks brought to the reception (Assist the bridesmaid)
Best Man Duties After The Wedding:
- Return all tuxedos to the rental shop
- Drive newlyweds to their wedding night hotel or airport (if no other transportation is arranged)
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