In my mind, Father’s Day always conjures up a list such as this: a neck tie, a set of tools, golf balls, fishing tackle, a coffee mug & any item proclaiming “World’s Greatest Dad!” In reality, if we asked dads what they actually wanted for Father’s Day, it would probably be alone time doing something they enjoy.
Celebrate Dad
I don’t remember Father’s Day being a big production when I was a girl. My dad was probably lucky to get a homemade card! While my sister and I love and appreciate our dad to this day, the celebrating of Father’s Day was not the commercialized event it is now. Certainly fathers deserve a special day. Today’s dads are more involved than ever when it comes to actively participating in parenting their children. A neck tie or coffee mug would certainly bring a smile to any dad’s face, but choosing a more meaningful gift should be a goal for kids, possibly with a little guidance from mom!
Be Creative
The web is full of traditional Father’s Day gift ideas, and whether your dad is into hiking, golf, horses, or books, focusing on his particular interest should provide a starting point. You can never go wrong with homemade cards, gift certificates or pictures created by the kids. These are priceless treasures to any parent. Unlike moms, dads will generally go buy what they want or need when they want it or need it. They tend not to wait for a holiday hoping someone will remember they need a new fishing pole. For this reason, a little creativity is in order.
Start A New Tradition
It may be time to turn Father’s Day upside down and start a new tradition in your family. Making a donation to a charity in your father’s name is one example. Another idea might be to plant a tree in honor or in memory of dad.
Your special gift could be as simple as spending time with your dad doing something that he enjoys. Plant a garden together, go on a bike ride, or spend the day watching his favorite movies. Let your dad’s interests be your guide! Whether you rely on past traditions or plan on starting a new one, make dad the center of HIS day!
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