With parties or weddings, come toasts. What did we say? You mean you have to get up in front of the entire wedding party or guests and make a speech? Yes. Maid of honors, best man, parents of the bride and groom and even the entire wedding party may have to give a toast. Even guests at parties may make a speech. What are the rules exactly? Wedding and Party Network has some toasting etiquette for you to follow that will get you through a wonderful toast.
Who: So, who gives a toast? It's polite to let the host or hostess give the toast first. This holds true to formal occasion, yet if it's a more casual event, there's more leeway. For a more formal occasion, wait your turn. If it's more casual, just see how it goes. The host/hostess may not want to give a toast, if not, go for it.
When: The toasting can come when as the first drinks are being poured or you can wait till the drinks are being poured for dessert. Just play it by ear. You'll know when it is the appropriate time to give one.
How: You've probably seen in the movies where someone stands and clinks their glass. You may want to refrain from that technique. Instead, stand tall and begin. People will take notice.
Where, What, Why: If you are planning on giving a toast at a formal event, be prepared. Even if it's more casual, be prepared. Don't drink too much, slur your words, ramble on; keep the message short and sweet. Think spectacular, not spectacle. Give thankful and heartfelt words. If it's more casual, you can be more laid back within your speech by giving funny little jokes. Still think it out and make sure your jokes are actually funny.
Toasts are great to give and the host/hostess truly feels special whenever they receive one. Just remember to plan them out and actually put thought into the words.
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