Wedding Dilemma: My Fiance and I are on a tight budget, i have a 4 yr old and and a much much much younger brother (8) who are part of my wedding party, we are only in our early and mid twenties and trying to make a go of things with out a substantial amount of debt however my family has a habit of overly reproducing, i know that probably sounds harsh but 13 kids on one side of my family are under the age of 10!!! and honestly at $15 a head that’s an extra $150 plus tip we cant afford.. to top it off its my first cousins kids and some of them are great kids but i have several (4-5) under 5 and one that is special needs, and its so hard to plan everything remotely kid friendly when what i want is a classic simple elegance that i can enjoy my older relatives and family and friends that mean so much and maybe unwind after a couple hours with a more contemporary beat my friends and i would enjoy but i also don’t want to offend family members old or young with or without small children, do i do as i please as its my day, can i tactfully not invite the kiddies, what can i do???
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